About Tonya Harden

My name is Tonya Harden. I’m a Christian, the wife of the cutest Pastor ever, the mother of three beautiful girls, the Pastor wife of New Destiny Fellowship Church, and a woman who loves to see women win.

I know a thing or two about struggling with your identity.

Growing up in the church led me to my purpose. I knew I wanted to be a voice for you who are silently suffering. I understood that your frustration within yourself can lead to you hurting others, and it became my goal to remind you to see yourself through God’s eyes…not people.

In 2011, I started a women’s ministry called Women of Destiny which allows me to show women just like you how to discover their destiny through God’s eyes. I’ve seen many women’s lives change right before my eyes. My testimonies encouraged them to move out of their own way, but remarkably as I watched those women transform, I realized I was still stuck.

I still didn’t know who I was outside of my physical roles of being a wife, a mother, and a church leader.

Then I fell ill, and through my illness, I found a new appreciation for life. Over 19 years of journaling led me to share my story with the world by writing my first book.

This is when I found my identity. Writing my story was therapeutic, and healing. It opened up so many creative ideas for my platform as a Pastor’s Wife and I discovered that my purpose was to help women like you win and identify your divine purpose.

After becoming a certified Life Coach, I started designing strategies with principals that will allow you to grow in every area of your life. I discovered my purpose, and I’ve gone on to impact hundreds of women just like you.

Now, I am a motivational speaker, a mentor to many women and Pastor wives, business consultants and a purpose pusher.

If you’re ready to step into your metamorphosis, work with me one-on-one or join my signature mentorship program, The Butterfly Academy – Mentorship.

I can’t wait to meet you.