Grow, Glow & Thrive in your divine purpose.

Explore my empowering programs designed to guide you through your deepest pain.

See yourself through God’s eyes and embrace your true purpose in life. 

The fact of the matter is, an identity crisis can happen to anyone….

If you’ve found yourself questioning your:

  • Spirituality
  • Beliefs
  • Interests
  • Or even your career paths

You’re in the right place!

I’ve learned over the years the dangers of social media and society pressuring us into an identity that we don’t belong.

And through the programs of Tonya Harden Ministries

I’m committed to walking you through the steps and processes to shed those false identities through divine healing.

Hand in hand, I’ll show you how to emerge from your most painful experiences giving you the ability to see yourself through God’s eyes…not people.

Learn practical tools to help you move through your suffering

Discover how to heal from your deepest wounds

Wake up refreshed and excited for your day

Release the heavy burden of confusion about who you are

Start embodying God’s vision for your life

Identify your God-sized passion and purpose



God Will Hide You

God Will Hide You Read the Newsletter here God will Hide YOU!!! Since starting New Destiny Church in 2010 I have felt like my life has been on display with steroids added to the mix. At our home church CRM now City Cathedral, I was the one who worked behind the scenes...

God’s Plan

God’s Plan

God's Plan Read the Newsletter here Jeremiah 29:1111 For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. This will be a very transparent message: Before getting married after I was...

You Have What it Takes

You Have What it Takes Read the Newsletter here Good morning Destiny & Happy New year, First I want to say thank you for being a part of my email blogs and I pray that we have had a chance to grow together through every email that I have sent, but most of all I...

“But I understand why… it’s because I never really dealt with my pain.”

“Taking the Pain To Purpose Course has truly been an eye opener for me. From the very first video I broke down crying because I had to face my pain. We try to burn it and not think about it. Situations happen and old feelings arise from no where. But I understand why, it’s because I never really dealt with my pain. This course has allowed me to bring it to the forefront. I have learned that I have to overcome this pain before I can go out and help anyone else. This part of the course made my spirit leap on the inside. I discovered who I am after the pain. I discovered what the new Dendra looks like! If you are still holding on to hurt and pain in your life, I highly recommend this training course. When you know better, you do better and for me this course has showed me the areas I’ve been blocking out. I’m excited and ready to see what God has for me. ” – Dendra Butler


The Butterfly Academy

Learning that you are a product of grace by embracing your metamorphosis moments

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Harden Publishing

When you write you heal and forgive, when they read they feel and heal. Work with us and learn how to write, publish, and promote your book.

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Life Coaching/Mentor

Helping you to embrace your marriage, ministry, money and to reveal the real healed you on a one-on-one, deep-dive basis

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Business Consulting

Through Harden Enterprise Services LLC

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Women of Destiny

A group for women from all walks of life. Prophets, evangelists, ministers, women in business, elders, married women, and singles!

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Pastors’ Wives Connection

A private and safe community that is designed for the Senior Pastor’s Wives of a church congregation. Our goal is to help you stay connected to God, connected to marriage, and connected to ministry…in that order. We do that by going LIVE every 3rd Thursday of the month on FB.

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Kingdom Women’s Network

Where women Connect| Cultivate| Collaborate – for business owners

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It’s time to finally face your pain so that you can get to your purpose! Claim your free workbook and do the work!

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There’s Power in Your Pain: When You Learn to Speak Life Into It

While being a Christian, can I drown in pain?

For some Christians, life isn’t always about rainbows and butterflies…sometimes, life just sucks, and we get hurt in the process. People leave you, you experience heartbreak, someone mistreats you, and you make mistakes you can’t undo.

Some may say, “What do I do when I wake up in the morning with this pain in my chest? What do I do when I feel like I’m drowning and can’t breathe because it hurts so badly? What do I do when I feel like the only thing I can do is stay in bed for the rest of my life because of sadness? What do I do?”

This book is for you if you have experienced any hurt in your life. Join me as I teach you how to speak life into your most painful experiences.

A collection of masterclasses and e-courses to help you embrace your metamorphosis moments.

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