You know there is something you’re meant to do, but you’re not sure what…

When we do work that feels most authentic to us, we thrive. 

This is your time to take on an opportunity like no other, that will give you access to a proven process and hand-holding guidance through the discovery work required to align with your truest self, clarify your divine purpose, and start doing the work you were meant to do. 


The fact of the matter is, an identity crisis can happen to anyone….

If you’ve found yourself questioning your:

  • Spirituality
  • Beliefs
  • Interests
  • Or even your career paths

You’re in the right place!

I’ve learned over the years the dangers of social media and society pressuring us into an identity that we don’t belong.

And through the programs of Tonya Harden Ministries

I’m committed to walking you through the steps and processes to shed those false identities through divine healing.

Hand in hand, I’ll show you how to emerge from your most painful experiences giving you the ability to see yourself through God’s eyes…not people.

Learn practical tools to help you move through your suffering

Discover how to heal from your deepest wounds

Wake up refreshed and excited for your day

Release the heavy burden of confusion about who you are

Start embodying God’s vision for your life

Identify your God-sized passion and purpose



National Women In Small Business Month!!

Celebrating National Women in Small Business Month Read the Newsletter here It's time to celebrate women-owned businesses everywhere, as well as the outstanding progress female entrepreneurs have made over the years. I will be sharing tips every Monday on my YouTube...

Let’s Rebuild Again

REBUILD AGAIN!!!As I write this I can’t believe that we are already in the 8th month of the year. This is bananas, meaning we only have four months left before Christmas and New Years is here. Even though I can’t believe it’s already August, I can say this year has...

When Destiny Meets Destiny

The book of Mark shows us how this woman that had bleeding issues for 12 years had heard about a man that she believed could change her life forever. During this time of this text this woman was considered unclean, which meant she could not be around other people. I...

“But I understand why… it’s because I never really dealt with my pain.”

“Taking the Pain To Purpose Course has truly been an eye opener for me. From the very first video I broke down crying because I had to face my pain. We try to burn it and not think about it. Situations happen and old feelings arise from no where. But I understand why, it’s because I never really dealt with my pain. This course has allowed me to bring it to the forefront. I have learned that I have to overcome this pain before I can go out and help anyone else. This part of the course made my spirit leap on the inside. I discovered who I am after the pain. I discovered what the new Dendra looks like! If you are still holding on to hurt and pain in your life, I highly recommend this training course. When you know better, you do better and for me this course has showed me the areas I’ve been blocking out. I’m excited and ready to see what God has for me. ” – Dendra Butler


The Butterfly Academy

Learning that you are a product of grace by embracing your metamorphosis moments

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Harden Publishing

When you write you heal and forgive, when they read they feel and heal. Work with us and learn how to write, publish, and promote your book.

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Life Coaching/Mentor

Helping you to embrace your marriage, ministry, money and to reveal the real healed you on a one-on-one, deep-dive basis

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Business Consulting

Through Harden Enterprise Services LLC

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Women of Destiny

A group for women from all walks of life. Prophets, evangelists, ministers, women in business, elders, married women, and singles!

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Pastors’ Wives Connection

A private and safe community that is designed for the Senior Pastor’s Wives of a church congregation. Our goal is to help you stay connected to God, connected to marriage, and connected to ministry…in that order. We do that by going LIVE every 3rd Thursday of the month on FB.

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Kingdom Women’s Network

Where women Connect| Cultivate| Collaborate – for business owners

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It’s time to finally face your pain so that you can get to your purpose! Claim your free workbook and do the work!

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A story of transformation strength power

There’s Power in Your Pain: When You Learn to Speak Life Into It

While being a Christian, can I drown in pain?

For some Christians, life isn’t always about rainbows and butterflies…sometimes, life just sucks, and we get hurt in the process. People leave you, you experience heartbreak, someone mistreats you, and you make mistakes you can’t undo.

Some may say, “What do I do when I wake up in the morning with this pain in my chest? What do I do when I feel like I’m drowning and can’t breathe because it hurts so badly? What do I do when I feel like the only thing I can do is stay in bed for the rest of my life because of sadness? What do I do?”

This book is for you if you have experienced any hurt in your life. Join me as I teach you how to speak life into your most painful experiences.

A collection of masterclasses and e-courses to help you embrace your metamorphosis moments.

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