Hi, I’m Tonya Harden. I’m a wife to the love of my life (who also happens to be the cutest Bishop), and a proud mom of three beautiful girls. Together, my husband and I pastor at New Destiny Church in Texas, and I also serve women around the world as a mentor, author, and coach. I’ve written over 11 books, including There’s Power in Your Pain, Church Hurt but It Helped, Marriage Survival Guide, and You Are the Fragrance: A Guide for Pastors’ Wives.

At the heart of everything I do are my core values: faith, integrity, family, service, and purpose. These values guide me whether I’m mentoring a young woman, consulting with a business owner, or simply being present with my family.

I’m passionate about helping women get unstuck, heal from life’s challenges, and boldly walk in the purpose God has placed within them. That’s why I started Tonya Harden Ministries and the Butterfly Academy Mentorship Program—to create a safe, faith-filled space where women can transform pain into power and step confidently into their calling.

Alongside ministry, I’m also the Co-Founder and Vice President of Harden Enterprise Services LLC, a company my husband and I built to empower individuals, families, and businesses. Through its divisions—like HE Disaster Restoration, HE Printing & Marketing, HE Lions Den Small Business Community, and HE Book Consulting—we’re helping people rebuild, grow, and thrive.

At my core, I’m a builder—of people, faith, families, and businesses. I believe in living authentically, leading with love, and leaving a legacy of impact. My mission is simple: to remind others that no matter what they’ve been through, God’s plan for their life still stands.