Your Purpose Has Been Calling You All Year”

Your Purpose Has Been Calling You All Year”

December 12, 20253 min read

Your Purpose Has Been Calling You All Year

Hey sis,

I want to speak directly to the woman who has been searching — not just online, but in her spirit.

The woman who has typed things like “Christian life coach near me” or “women’s coach in South Carolina” late at night because she knows something is missing… even though her life may look “fine” on the outside.

The woman who loves God but still feels unclear about her calling.
The woman who knows she was created for more, but doesn’t know where to start.
The woman who feels stuck between who she is and who God is calling her to become.

Sis, let me say this clearly:

God has more for you.
Your purpose has been calling you all year.
And this is not an accident — it’s alignment.

If this year has felt heavy, confusing, or repetitive, it’s not because you’re failing.
It’s because God is shifting you — and transitions always feel uncomfortable before they feel clear.

🌿 Why Clarity Feels Hard (and Why You’re Not Alone)

As a Christian life coach and women’s coach in South Carolina, I’ve worked with countless women who love God deeply but still struggle with:

  • clarity about their calling

  • confidence in their purpose

  • fear around starting a business or nonprofit

  • emotional wounds from past setbacks

  • mental exhaustion from carrying everything alone

And here’s the truth most women never hear:

👉 Clarity is not found in isolation.
Clarity is revealed through process, support, and alignment.

That’s why I created a clarity and calling coaching program designed specifically for women who are ready to grow — spiritually, mentally, emotionally, and purposefully.

🦋3 PRINCIPLES YOU CAN START USING TODAY

Before I invite you deeper, I want to give you something practical you can apply right now.

Principle 1 — Identity comes before assignment

You cannot walk confidently in purpose if you don’t understand who you are in Christ.

Resource:
Write this down and pray over it today:
“God, show me who You created me to be — not who life forced me to become.”

This is where clarity begins.

Principle 2 — Your mindset must be renewed before your life changes

Many women don’t need more motivation — they need mental renewal.

Resource:
Replace this thought: “I don’t know what I’m doing.”
With this truth: “God equips who He calls.”

Say it daily.

Principle 3 — Growth accelerates in the right environment

You were never meant to heal, grow, or build alone.

Whether you’re searching for:

  • a business coach in South Carolina

  • a nonprofit consultant near me

  • or a women’s business and purpose mentorship

What you’re really looking for is support, strategy, and spiritual alignment.

🦋 Why the Butterfly Academy Mentorship Exists

The Butterfly Academy Mentorship — also known as BAM Mentorship for Women — was created for women who are ready to stop circling the same mountain and start walking in clarity.

This Christian mentorship program for 2025 is for women who want to:

✨ hear God clearly
✨ heal emotionally
✨ renew their mindset
✨ activate their purpose
✨ start a business or nonprofit
✨ walk in confidence
✨ grow alongside other faith-driven women

BAM is a women’s business and purpose mentorship that combines:

  • faith

  • strategy

  • mindset coaching

  • emotional healing

  • practical implementation

This is not just coaching.
It’s transformation.

✨ JOIN US 2026 BAM Next Level Success 12 Week Program

Sis, if you found this message because you were searching for help, clarity, or direction — I believe God led you here.

You don’t have to keep wondering.
You don’t have to stay stuck.
You don’t have to do this alone.

💛 Join the Butterfly Academy Mentorship Program today and begin walking in clarity, confidence, and calling.

👉 Learn more and enroll here:
https://tonyaharden.com/bam-program-page

With love, purpose, and expectation for your next level,
Tonya Harden
Your Life Coach & Purpose Mentor

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